OBSESSION

A friend of mine brought this story up early in the morning(it must have weighed heavily on her mind for it to be an early opener)I found it quite interesting and so decided to share it.  What's your take?

Some 17 years ago, I met this girl at this lesson I was attending while preparing to enter into the university. We were very good friends and would always gist after class et al. There was nothing physical cos we were just friends but I knew she really liked me cos most times after classes, she would walk me half way to my place before going home. We now broke contact and I stumbled upon her again in Lagos in Year 3 and she now openly came out and professed her love to me saying she had always been in love blah blah...the "bad boy" in me would have taken advantage of it and slept with her but my mind told me not to and my mind has NEVER told me never to sleep with any girl so I knew something was wrong and told her to just let us be friends and that I was in a relationship ...She didn't take it well saying that ALL men cheat and that she was offering herself as a virgin to me on a platter of gold and why would I say no...Let me quickly add that she comes from a rich family and is actually beautiful and light skinned. But the idea of her throwing herself all over me just put me off. I told her I couldn't and u should have seen the love letter she wrote professing her love and at that point, I concluded she had a mental problem cos no girl can love a guy that much...A guy u haven't even kissed talk less of sleeping with...I have done a lot of crazy things in my life but there was just something about this babe that didn't make me sleep with her and that's cos my mind just kept saying Mike, don't do it. So I sha told her off, told her never to call me and thankfully, I finished from lag and traveled out and she couldn't get in touch with me.6 months ago, I got a notification from Skype about a Tokunbo wanting to add me. Initially I was hesitant but I just said to myself that "hey, I haven't spoken to this babe in over 7 years" and that she must have gotten over this love she has for me and that some sharp guy would have popped her cherry and then accepted the invite. After a month or two of exchanging pleasantries on line and gisting...she started again and this time it got me scared. She is in the UK doing her masters. And she just started saying that she is still and I quote "hopelessly and madly" in love with me and that she can never stop loving me. Now this was the part that got me worried...She said she has vowed to herself that its me or no one else and that is why she has still kept herself for me. And that cos of me, she hasn't slept with any other guy cos she wants me to be the one to dis-virgin her. so when she said that, I just yanked her off my skype, clicked on "ignore future notification". And cos skype always shows numbers, I blocked her number on my phone to make her not be able to reach me. And just like I suspected, she tried calling me but it didn't go thru. The application I downloaded would make u know when someone is trying to reach u. And I was thankful that I had peace again cos I kept saying to myself that she is in jand, and that maybe that would create a barrier. And this time it would be for good. Only for me to get a call from a number without no name. As a standing rule, I don't pick up numbers showing unknown or private. Even numbers without names, I am always circumspect but I picked up this one.And lo and behold it was her again calling me from the airport that she had landed. Imagine o, she hadn't called her folks or the driver to pick her up but she called me cos she said she figured I had blocked her number and that even when she tried calling me with an unknown number it didn't go thru.She sha started asking and saying all sorts that she doesn't know what she has done to offend me...blah blah...Before I go on, what she said that made me really yank her off was the fact that she said she had promised herself that if I didn't get married to her, she won't get married and that since I had already told her I was getting married to someone else, I should just get her pregnant and and let her carry a memory of me with her for as long as she lives...that was when I yanked her off...Something in me told me to finally put a stop to this mess once and for all so I told her to let us hook up for the last time at a restaurant so I can put a stop to this and I told her I would see her over the weekend. But something happened again yesternight that is now making me have second thoughts about seeing her to warn her. I usually put my phone on silent and I woke up to 45 missed calls from her and this text she sent to me...I would copy and paste for u to see...This was the first text she sent and it goes thus d most handsm and wel dressd man I v ever knwn, and ever luvd, cnt wait, 16yrs just like yesterdy and in all ths yrs i never stpd luvn u despt d maltrmnt, hpn 1 day i wl win my friend bck, no matter me d woman blockn my chances, cos i dnt gv a cheat. I cnt wait 2 see u nxt wk sat or b4 then. Find it n ur heart 2 4gv me if i v ever wrngd u. I luv u, pls thnk deep cos i v tried and i dzev 2 b treatd well. Luv u This is the second one she sent and it goes thus "Cld u pls send a txt and tell me y u hate me so much. It is well. if dats d way u wnt it then v it ur way at i least gv it a shot. And lemme add, I never led her on...never even encouraged it cos my mind just kept saying don't. I never even kissed her...but I know she has always been crazy about me.